Getting ready and being part of the bridal party is not only an honor and a privilege in its self, but it is also very exciting. As the big day of either your sister, sister-in-law to be, family member or best friend draws near, one of the most important duties for the girls around her would be to throw her a bachelorette party that she will not forget.
The whole purpose of throwing her this party besides giving her “her last night of freedom” is to make sure that she is surrounded by all her girlfriends. It is also to ensure that her mind is taken off all of the stress that comes with planning a wedding. So if you are part of the retinue or even a best friend, here are a few things that you will need to keep in mind when organizing this party.
One of the main things that you will need to keep in mind when planning and putting this party together would be the preference of the bride to be. It is true that when you mention a “bachelorette party” you automatically imagine a wild night on the town. However, that may not be the preference of the bride in question. She may very much prefer a quiet night out with the girls and sometimes even her family. She may also want to keep it intimate with her close friends.
Next you will need to decide and finalize the date. If it is a surprise party that is being planned, you will need to check with the mother of the bride or another family member if she has any plans for the day and make sure that she keeps the day free, you will subsequently need to book a venue. You could choose to have it at their residence and then go out for dinner and let the rest of the plans unfold of decide to meet out at a restaurant. You will need to look at options that are available for the day, like restaurants in Frankston for instance. Once the booking is made, you’ve done the basics of what needs to be sorted out in regards to the party.
Next, you will need to look into the invites. Again, keep the bride’s preference in mind when deciding on whom to extend the invites to. You may need help to contact everyone and make sure that no one is left out. Create a group on a social media site that everyone is on where you can keep everyone informed about the venue and the time along with the plan you have decided on.
Decoration & Food
Make sure that the venue is tastefully decorated but is still able to create a fun vibe. If you are choosing to meet at a restaurant then food will not be an issue although it would be a good idea to run it by the invitees to make sure that they all agree on the place as well.
And finally, remember this is supposed to be a fun night so let her kick back, enjoy and have fun surrounded by all her favorite people.